Dear people in a game that shall remain nameless...

If you don't know what you're doing, follow those of us who do. I understand it's slightly complicated, as I had issues fully grasping the concept at first too. The last thing you should do though, especially after admitting to everyone that you're brand new to this section of the game, is run off by yourself or try to lead.

The reason our side is the most successful currently is because we have a nice sized group of us that is organized over voice chat. We make plans that make sense and execute them in a highly coordinated fashion. It is not because of the following (but you seem to think it is?):

1. Feeding because you think you're badass and that you can take down people at max level, when you're not even half-way there, solo
2. Not using the proper equipment to complete a task and instead running in head first because you saw a zerg do it successfully on one occasion and don't understand the concept of numbers. Basically, dying needlessly without feeding actual players.
3. Letting that thing hit you that we warned you not to let hit you or standing in or on things we asked you not to. It really is for your own good, but apparently you like the needless dying thing.
4. Using up our resources with your constant and needless deaths, so that when one of us dies we have to take the long way back to the fight.
5. Refusing to help with expenses of battle, causing us to be short on stuff we need.
6. Buying the incorrect items for the task at hand and going with it anyways, taking up our spots for the proper items and wasting your currency.
7. Going completely opposite of where we're going or lagging far behind. I get that not everyone is as fast as everyone else, but you can't get mad at us for leaving you behind if you /afk in the field, not even bothering to hide. That's a good way to get picked off. Going in the opposite direction as literally everyone else... No sympathy for you. Sometimes there's multiple smaller groups spreading out to cover more land, but you don't go with any for whatever reason and think you are your own group. You can't solo defeat a bunch of enemies and you certainly cannot cap stuff solo, so I don't understand why you insist on trying.
8. I just like the number 8 and don't like you.

Some key things you, as a new player to said nameless game, should do include: follow the group you end up with wherever they are going, follow the leader of said group's instructions to the letter, absorb all the wisdom around you by spending as much time learning as possible, help provide the proper items (plz ask, most people are nice enough to tell you what stuff is for what), and avoid giving commands or advice until you've spent a lot of time in said nameless game and nearly perfected the art that is conquering all the things.

I'm sure these rules and baddies apply to a lot of games, so if it sounds like it makes sense and you're thinking to yourself it might not be a bad idea to obey the above commands... do your fellow gamers a favor and obey. Someday when you have more experience you may come across someone who was like you used to be and you'll understand the frustration those before you have felt.

tl;dr? Game baddies are bad and should read the above stuff.